If so, cool. It's a wise step to check the hypothesis to make sure it isn't immediately contradicting what we already understand.
Given that intelligence took an awfully long time to emerge from LUCA, that seems implausible. But it's fun to imagine pre-Theia "Silurians". That sort of impact would have scorched earth of any trace or remnant of their existence. It feels as though there must be sufficiently advanced civilizations out there witnessing this exact scenario play out without the necessary technology to stop it. Though that fate would be horrifying.
Another thing to think about is that shortly after the Big Bang (if there was one, Lamda-CDM or similar models holding up), was that shortly after the Big Bang the temperature of the early universe was uniformly 0-100 degrees Celsius. It may have been possible for life to originated in this primordial interstellar medium without even so much as needing a host planet or star! Just life coalescing in space itself.
That early primordial soup, if it existed, could have seeded the whole universe. Most aliens might have matching molecules and chirality if those decisions predate our galaxy.
Not much to start life with.
I suspect this is not actually that common. Giant impacts are more common in early solar systems; things eventually settle into nice circular orbits like we have now. Whereas intelligent life does seem to take a while to evolve, so probably more common later in a solar system's life cycle.
basing that theory on an anecdotal story of 1.
Our sun and earth won't last long enough, but Mercury's orbit is potentially unstable.
A red dwarf might harbor live bearing planets long enough to see its long-lived orbits eventually destabilize. Or perhaps witness the even rarer interstellar collision or destabilization from rogue planets, etc.
And is not even that the impact erased their trace from earth, is that if they got extinct long enough (more than 100 million years ago), with today's technology, we cannot infer their presence, given the fossil (and other types of) record.
A great write up about this is: https://archive.is/https://pacificklaus.com/the-silurian-hyp...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theia_(hypothetical_planet)#Co...
There is some interesting evidence suggesting the deeper layers remained intact, in the form of a region under the Pacific that might be the impact scar. It's an inexplicably-dense zone that causes hot-spots at its corners resulting in increased surface volcanism, like how the edges of a leaf burn before the middle in a fire.
... but on the surface? Yeah, no hiding place.
Edit: beyond that, there’s the need for a stable orbit, a stable axial tilt, a stable star (few mega flares), some kind of galactic shield a la Jupiter, and more.
Then again, how well do we know of stuff in these spaces today? It seems to me we barely have a clue of the space junk we ourselves sent up orbiting in our backyard.