BaldursGate3

I started playing BG3 this week, this is my current party

I started playing BG3 this week, this is my current party

But genuine question, am I the only one who's getting love confessions as early as Act 1? Laezel already confessed her love (turned her down, took it horribly), I had a moment with Gale showing me magic, and Astarion is acting weird. Is this normal? I feel like these relationships are going way too fast.

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demonfire737
WARLOCK

Lae'zel didn't confess her love, she just wants to fuck. She's very clear its a fling, the love part comes if you keep it going.

And yes, the romances begin act 1 for the origin companions. If you don't like them, turn them down. They will never ask again. And they don't all want sex act 1, only Lae'zel and Astarion do.

16 hours ago
Panurome

Correct me if I'm wrong but Karlach kinda wants it too, she's just unable to touch you

15 hours ago
demonfire737
WARLOCK

Yeah, that's true. She jumpsnyour bones the moment she gets the chance to if you're romancing her.

15 hours ago
JesusChristKungFu

I really want to do so, but I'm playing my own IRL alignment— chaotic neutral so I'm bangin' big L and Karlach is in slight disapproval now. On my other playthrough she jokes it off, but I started as a good aligned cleric and I hated the gameplay but bless is so OP. Much prefer playing as myself IE a wizard of some sort doing what I would do IRL in-game. I'm also a necro and just got my first skelly boy.

12 hours ago
chokingonpancakes

How do you actually pursue Karlach? I read that you have to respond very specifically to her in Act 1.

4 hours ago
Mostly-Useless_4007

Lae’zel changes a bit in act 3.

15 hours ago
insanity76

Just a tad bit lol. It's the cutscene you'd never see coming in a million years based on the Act 1 Lae'zel, and it's why her arc is my favorite overall.

4 hours ago
Mostly-Useless_4007

Exactly. I think I have romanced her more than others. In my most current run, we had a bit of a disagreement about how to address her god, and we had to sadly part ways.

4 hours ago
Feature_Minimum

Lae’zel died in my playthrough and it’s a single save, looking forward already to my next playthrough, I think I’ll go for an all gith or mostly Gith party just for Lae’zel.

3 hours ago
Mostly-Useless_4007

Not sure how to do more than two (maybe a hireling? I don’t remember if any of those are Gith). I have done quite a few Lae’zel romance runs. They are quite gratifying.

5 minutes ago
higurashi0793 OP
CLERIC

Thanks! Still, I found it super odd because she has disapproved of many of my decisions, so I thought she'd be the last companion to do that.

16 hours ago
demonfire737
WARLOCK

If you do something impressive with her around it fast tracks her interest in you. She likes bold action above all. I normally get the proposition after fighting the Owlbear.

16 hours ago
SquireRamza

She really is one of the easiest companions to max out affinity with. She was practically maxed after the creche even though I made like every choice that pissed her off.

15 hours ago
MasonP2002

A bunch of her approvals for the creche quest are worth 5 or 10 points, so you have to pretty much deliberately piss her off at every turn to outweigh that. All the options to let her speak for the party are big approval gains as well, and I usually let her do that because it's just easier.

14 hours ago
sinedelta
While others were busy being heterosexual, she studied the blade

Lae'zel has low standards. If you impress her in battle and she likes you a little bit, that's enough.

15 hours ago
4myreditacount

That doesn't sound like low standards to me. Id be pretty smitten if a baddie impressed me in battle too. Im with Lae'zel on this one.

11 hours ago
BlizzardousBane
CLERIC

Lae'zel is down bad. She propositioned my Tav after I resolved the first major story questline (keeping it vague in case you still haven't gotten there.) I had my sights on Gale, so I had to turn her down

15 hours ago
razorsmileonreddit

Lae'Zel is somewhere between a Tsundere and a hierarchy-sexual. She approves of you standing up to her and approves even more when you take charge.

13 hours ago
grubas

Basically if she thinks you are not a useless sack of crap you should bang.  

Romance isn't really in her language right now.  

13 hours ago
FusRoGah

If you’re playing a good-aligned character, Lae’zel is pretty hard to accrue approval with until you reach her people’s creche. Impress her there, and you’ll suddenly be her favorite person pretty much

12 hours ago
insanity76

Yeah she and Astarion tend to disapprove a lot of "good guy" things, but they're also the quickest and easiest to bang since the approval spikes you can get in the early going are massive and specific to them.

4 hours ago
discodropper

Minthara will sex you six ways from Sunday in act 1! Not sure if she counts as an origin character though…

12 hours ago
demonfire737
WARLOCK

She does not. Only the six (seven if you count Durge, but they're not a companion) you can choose at the beginning of the game do, which is why I used the moniker.

12 hours ago
BlizzardousBane
CLERIC

Is nun with a gun supposed to be Shadowheart or your Tav?

15 hours ago
higurashi0793 OP
CLERIC

My Tav, I'm a cleric

15 hours ago
BlizzardousBane
CLERIC

Eyyyyy me too. I read online that it's statistically the least chosen class in Baldur's Gate 3. I always did like being the healer

15 hours ago
higurashi0793 OP
CLERIC

Really? I'm having fun so far! If you know how to use your abilities, your cleric can carry your team easy.

15 hours ago
BlizzardousBane
CLERIC

Oh, it was great. Cleric has a ton of fun offensive abilities too

I think Shadowheart being a popular companion factored into it, but I went in blind so I didn't know another companion was a cleric. But having two clerics in the party helped a lot in certain points

15 hours ago
corisilvermoon
Ranger

Heck yeah I finished honor mode playing a cleric, sometimes with Shads in the party as well, double cleric beat down!

15 hours ago
Saelora

i think a part of that is that on follow up playthroughs, everyone knows s/heart will be pushed into the party, anyway.

11 hours ago
TheSpeakEasyGarden

Not if you make her face the consequences for threatening Lazel.

And while I had to respect Wyll into a bardlock just for healing word, camp feels much more peaceful without the presence of religious fanatic rambling about how she dreams of bringing on the heat death of the universe.

6 hours ago
Saelora

yeah, i'm not talking about you. i'm talking about why in general cleric is so uncommon for tav, and that is because most people make their tav expecting to have shadowheart in their party to fill the cleric role.

not every post on reddit needs a personal anecdote contra-example to generalities. and nobody cares how much you hate shadowheart.

4 hours ago
Darkspire303

Unfortunately I think that's just people.

"it's not good to be lit on fire!"

"Oh yeah? Well what about this one time where I was cold?"

4 hours ago
TheSpeakEasyGarden

For the right role play, it's fun to not force the characters to get along.

I should have put /s on there, which is on me. Sorry for bringing irritation to your day when it was intended to be banter.

Edit: actually genuinely sorry. I re-read that and with the wrong tone it sounds like I'm being a resentful little shit.

I'm failing all my charisma checks today. 😅

4 hours ago
Saelora

i'm also not talking about any specific example, and speaking in general that in most peoples playthroughs that shadowheart will be a cleric and therefore tav will likely not, bringing us back to the statistic that cleric is the least played class for tav.

3 hours ago
TheSpeakEasyGarden

No, I hear you. And I especially agree for most replays.

Even compared to DnD beyond statistics for class choices, cleric is less favored in bg3.

However, with the exception of paladin and sorcerer, all of the classes represented in the origin characters are still more popular than bard, druid, monk, or ranger. If it were strictly that people didn't like to play repeated roles, fighters and rogues wouldn't be so popular.

Though I do wonder how much it is for society to naturally see clerics as support only characters being unworthy of main character energy, when the majority of us play single player. As a DnD player, cleric often gets an unfair rep for being the "someone's got to be the healer class" since it's always multiplayer, which could be inflating the DnD beyond numbers.

Come to think of it, I don't know many RPGs where the hero is a primary healing class, period.

3 hours ago
ZombieJesus1987

I'm currently playing as a halfling Light Cleric.

Although to be fair, I also have mods on so I have the expanded party limit mod on because I want everyone to be included in my adventures.

I have Shadowheart as a Death Domain cleric

6 hours ago
Vanpourix

Somehow, I thought it was the Astarion ranger build. Nvm

12 hours ago
lunovadraws

Is Fiona Karlach or Lae’zel?

15 hours ago
higurashi0793 OP
CLERIC

Laezel, I haven't found the satan lady yet! I'm on that, though

15 hours ago
The_mango55

Yeah it's normal. BG3 isn't really like some RPGs where the game gives you a sex scene right at the end as a reward. Some party members are DTF right away and others are slower burns.

16 hours ago
ProfForp

Honestly I like the way BG3 handles it, as you said in most games the romance feels like a reward at the end of the game. In BG3 it feels like a continuing experience from Act 1 to Act 3, and the storylines feel a lot more satisfying as a result.

6 hours ago
iwearatophat

I like the flip. Traditionally romances are a game long courtship with sex or acknowledge or whatever at the end as a reward for it all. I play a lot of party based RPGs and I can't think of one off the top of my head, besides BG3, that flips the script. A lot start with the banging and move forward into the relationship aspect while the game is still going. I really like it.

The downside is the 'BG3 companions all just want to bang you' thing which is a necessity to kickstart the romance design. It doesn't allow for a slower build up.

4 hours ago
Dramatic_Profession7

It's not weird for Lae'zel to put out that fast. There's an entire speed run category "sex%" with a current record of 112 seconds to "romance" Lae'zel.

13 hours ago
Randalf_the_Black
ROGUE

Don't dance with wyll when he offers, unless you want to romance him.. You might think it's platonic, I promise you he doesn't.

12 hours ago
Iowahunter65

As I saw someone say once, the companions are Tavsexual. They all (unless you deliberately avoid it) are interested in you at one point or another. But, they all take no for an answer (most of the time)

15 hours ago
Pork_Chompk

I spent the whole first run like "Guys, we're trying to save the world here and not turn into Mindflayers. Can you all stop trying to fuck me for 5 seconds and focus on the mission?"

14 hours ago
Plane_Ad_5738

Wdym most of the time?? When they don't?

15 hours ago
EveryoneisOP3

Minthara asks you like three extra times if you turn down her relationship offer after recruiting her.

Tav: "Sorry, I'm with someone"

Minthara: 'Yes, but now you can have ME' as if explaining to a 5 year old

11 hours ago
Mama_Hong

I had a similar problem with Gale in my first playthrough. He tried multiple times; I told him no every time. Yet, at the end of Act 2, when I started officially dating Shadowheart, he got mad and gave me an ultimatum to choose between him and her. I think they toned him down after because it never happened again.

4 hours ago
Plane_Ad_5738

Oh ok, I didn't romance minthara cuz I didn't wanna betray the elfs

57 minutes ago
Iowahunter65

Referencing an old bug with Gale. Back when the game came out sometimes he'd bug and decide you were dating now even if you said no. Usually, when you see a Gale hater, that bug is why

15 hours ago
Plane_Ad_5738

Delusinal gale💀💀 just like me lol

56 minutes ago
MariupolBeSaved

Try to romance Shadowheart. It won't be so fast

12 hours ago
ThrowRA_dependent

Everyone knows who is who

14 hours ago
StormboundPariah

You’re going to be excellent at calculating numbers

12 hours ago
gaysapiens

Expected to see Jimmy Hendrix as Wyll

10 hours ago
Jazzlike_Debt_6506

I was honestly unsure if Fiona was supposed to be Karlak or Lae'zel at first. I spent way to long thinking about it.

5 hours ago
Rageliss

I think the Gale thing gets misinterpreted, even if you do think about romance with him, he's caught off guard. It's an intimate moment sure, but intimate =/= romance.

1 hour ago
Plane_Ad_5738

I got gale to confess at act 2 I don't even know why like I never tried to attract him

15 hours ago
wozniattack

He’s a twilight vampire. Unlike the glorious Bodhi from the past.

12 hours ago
purplesc0rpi0
loot goblin

this group is full of weirdos and that´s why we love them.
All you have to do is treat some of your companions like people with dignity, take them seriously and they will fall at your feet. Traumatised babies, most of them.

10 hours ago
RobOnTheReddit

Who's gun nun?

8 hours ago
ZombieJesus1987

If you thought your party was clingy now, you should have played during the launch.

Gale was especially horny for you.

6 hours ago
lolatmydeck
ROGUE

> Laezel already confessed her love
her love, lol, sure, "githyanki girlfriend", right?

otherwise solid meme

10 hours ago