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Wife’s Bf’s Car making noise

Mazda 3 2015, 150k miles. Knocking noise going over bumps. Can’t tell if it’s sway bar link, outer tie rod end, ball joint, all the above, or none of the above. Appreciate any help. First video has the clunking noise as I’m driving over some bumps

https://v.redd.it/t21mujcqtubf1
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Vic_Pirelli

This one is locked due to too many reports.

11 hours ago
Sherlock_Bromes_

Please don't get under the car with just the emergency jack supporting it. When it fails your wife's bf will have to take care of your kids.

Turn the wheel full left or full right to access the sway bar link. Have someone rock the vehicle side to side (I typically push hard along the roof line right above the driver's window.) Carefully put your hand on the link. If you feel any popping or clunking, you should take a closer look at the links (very common across all car brands)

16 hours ago
WhiskeyTangoFoxy

This, common issue in these cars mostly caused by repeated bouncing of the suspension. Tell your wife to take it easy.

14 hours ago
MXVIIIXV

Lmaooooo ts got me weak

16 hours ago
elgalloterminator

🤣🤣

16 hours ago
sleightmelody

Wife's boyfriend??

17 hours ago
Keyo0205

Neither the husband nor boyfriend were man enough to fix this issue, so they had to post the issue on reddit. Evidenced by the fact the wife needs multiple partners for satisfaction.

17 hours ago
samsqanch420

To be fair one of them just sits on the chair in the corner.

16 hours ago
frederick21_

Now we all know which one that is now don’t we……..

16 hours ago
01012025

cough OP cough

15 hours ago
mrkillfreak999

Anyone has video evidence for that? The judge can't decide a verdict unless he sees the video evidence

14 hours ago
m0h3k4n

She didn’t want anyone to fix this though. She was just venting about it.

12 hours ago
Helios---

15 hours ago
nickHuckabee

I couldn't have said it better myself 🤣

16 hours ago
Honest_Mushroom5133

And she needs another one

13 hours ago
dirtyoldbastard77

Or its his own car (he is his wifes boyfriend in addition to being her husband - my gf often likes to describe me like that - best friend, lover, boyfriend, hiking buddy, etc)

14 hours ago
drsmith48170

Or its actually unironically true and they are in some consenting three way…..but I fail to see why it had to be mentioned. So people share way too much.

13 hours ago
Responsible-Fee-126 OP

Dang chill bro that’s my wife you’re talking about. I will fix the issue, just need help figuring out what the issue is

13 hours ago
armnhammer365

I think you have bigger issues than the car.

12 hours ago
Calloutfakeops

It’s a meme.

16 hours ago
nsula_country

"Wife's boyfriend??"

I came here for the comments!

15 hours ago
deathhag

I believe he means best friend

13 hours ago
Ozy_g

Maybe best friend?

12 hours ago
Mr-Sealtest

Let’s hope they meant best friend

16 hours ago
inapropriateDrunkard

His wife's boyfriend is also her best friend. OP is just there to pay the bills and fix her boyfriend's problems.

16 hours ago
Impossible-Company78

r/creatine will have helpful suggestions

15 hours ago
LividDamage5971

I saw this and thought, yep someone's already commented this

15 hours ago
Matttombstone

That was my first impression too, then figured it actually meant Bastard Father.

15 hours ago
IdealisticFruit

Must be in an "open relationship," either that, or they are a stingers couple.

14 hours ago
michaelme28

Exactly what I was thinking

16 hours ago
CuffyTheEmpireSlayer

Lololol I came to comments for this first

16 hours ago
Accomplished-Stand15

Yes I was going about that and I thought may I didn't read it correct lmao

16 hours ago
tamman2000

Polyamorous people are a thing.

This shouldn't be any more shocking than a woman's wife's car having a problem. There are all kinds of people out there who aren't straight cis gendered monogamous.

15 hours ago
Miserable-Potato7706

Polyamorous people are a thing.

They shouldn’t be

13 hours ago
tamman2000

Fuck off.

People should be free to live their lives as they see fit if they aren't hurting anyone.

13 hours ago
Kadavermarch

At least you've managed to confuse the hell out of /r/MechanicAdvice today.

15 hours ago
Racefiend

Most likely the sway bar end link in my experience. Grab the end of the sway bar and move it up and down. If you feel any play then that's it.

But the bigger question is, why does your wife have a boyfriend?

17 hours ago
Anothertech4

wallstreetbets meme

16 hours ago
GooDaubs

Joke's been around a lot longer than that sub's been around.

15 hours ago
Paulert5

you won't feel any play when it's jacked up on one side like that, both wheels need to be on/off the ground

14 hours ago
saucelux

Wife’s boyfriend or Wife’s best friend? 😭

16 hours ago
renegadetoast

Wife's beef farmer

16 hours ago
Alternative-Pie-9949

Wife's beet farmer.... schrute.

16 hours ago
llamalovedee123

Dwight's M.O. smh

16 hours ago
surfnsound

You melon farmer

14 hours ago
ThatDude_Paul

Hmm how many boyfriends does your wife need to change a sway bar link?

16 hours ago
thebochts

Quit gingerly touching suspension parts, and grab a hold and violently shake the fuckers.

Youll be able to find the noise then.

16 hours ago
Barutano74

Either it’s the wife’s best friend or OP is a cyclist.

15 hours ago
bloopie1192

So your wife's dealing with 2 guys that cant fix cars?

Man. She really knows how to pick em.

Jack that puppy up and start hitting things. It could be the exhaust slapping around.

Where does it sound like its coming from?

11 hours ago
thepoky_materYT

HANK! DON'T ABBREVIATE BEST FRIEND WHEN TALKING ABOUT YOUR WIFE! HAAAAANK!

15 hours ago
Bathroomabuser

Sounds like the balls joints also wifes bf?

17 hours ago
EastClevelandBest

Don't touch your wife's bfs ball joints!

16 hours ago
Bathroomabuser

It's like when 3 of your exs cheat on u with the same guy. At that point, u just gotta find out what all the fuss is about.

16 hours ago
elticoxpat

No. You don't.

16 hours ago
MMKF0

Of course you don't. I, on the other hand...

15 hours ago
Bathroomabuser

https://i.redd.it/82ruhq3xevbf1.gif

15 hours ago
MMKF0

Wanna join me? 😏

14 hours ago
Bathroomabuser

https://preview.redd.it/1oq5en3fjvbf1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a4677b3ca50751083db7cd328f3f649174f95aeb

14 hours ago
MMKF0

Enlighten me

14 hours ago
Bathroomabuser

https://i.redd.it/dstdz45xovbf1.gif

14 hours ago
CPT_BEEMO

At least not without consent.

16 hours ago
readditredditread

Wife’s boyfriend’s gonna ow you big time after this repair!!!!

13 hours ago
jupavalos

let you wife's boyfriend figure it out why you gotta post about your wife's boyfriend's car making noise?

16 hours ago
Starzino

ITT: People that never visited r/wallstreetbets

16 hours ago
Catch_Em_Cards

Very true. They don’t get the joke

13 hours ago
4theFrontPage

They're in for a real treat when they check their local Wendy's dumpster 😎

14 hours ago
drifts180

This man is putting his life on the line for his wife's bf by crawling under the car with that jack. He must really care about her.

14 hours ago
Least-Masterpiece368

So the husband and boyfriend couldn’t figure this out she needs another side dude smh

15 hours ago
Previous-Ride9671

Suspect he meant "best friend"

12 hours ago
krazy_dayz

I was like wait, what's going on?

12 hours ago
Crewmember169

Tell your wife's boyfriend to fix it himself.

14 hours ago
Character_Draft_5895

I was rereading this multiple times and then like: “Wait a second?!!!🤔🤨🧐”

11 hours ago
EdRedSled

r/cuckoldmechanic

16 hours ago
SkyVixen24

Wait. Are we just going to skip over the title? Your wives boyfriend?

16 hours ago
Ponce_DeLeon_

If you look at OP's post history, it keeps track.

16 hours ago
Responsible-Fee-126 OP

It gets the people going haha

13 hours ago
SkyVixen24

Deff an attention grabber 😂😂

12 hours ago
RecoverDense4945

It could be lower control arm bushings sway bar links or upper /lower shock mounts.

16 hours ago
IamWindows

Could replace the sway bar end links first as they’re cheap to get off RockAuto or something.

My recent experience, one of our cars had the same noise over bumps and it was the struts.

16 hours ago
marxsmarks

If you want to eliminate the sway bar links, disconnect one of the links. If they are making the noise, the noise will stop. Obviously you don't want to be going around a corner super quick, but it'll be fine for diagnosing.

16 hours ago
Responsible-Fee-126 OP

Amazing idea, thank you

13 hours ago
marxsmarks

Should add, cable tie the link out of the way or completely remove it. Might get squashed otherwise.

16 hours ago
alejungle

Unless you want to kill your wife's bf

16 hours ago
hogger303

I thought BF= boy friend

15 hours ago
Justlurkin6921

Certified corner chair sitter

15 hours ago
Firm_Singer3858

Read this as “wife’s boyfriend’s car” and was really confused for a second

14 hours ago
jockotaco14

I just hope her and her boyfriend weren't too bothered by you not fixing his car for him so they could have a lovely evening together. So rude.

16 hours ago
Exciting_Scientist97

Now this is a hold up moment if I ever seen one

12 hours ago
Puzzleheaded-Row-511

I hope that means "Best Friend"

16 hours ago
ixsparkyx

Why does your wife have a boyfriend

16 hours ago
Ponce_DeLeon_

🍆

16 hours ago
ShiggitySwiggity

for everyone questioning the "wife's boyfriend" bit

16 hours ago
Big_A_All_Day

Seeking assistance for Wife’s boyfriend’s car is wild 💀

16 hours ago
artsatisfied229

Sounds like the Cuck hose isn’t working.

16 hours ago
Ok-South2612

Hit it with your purse.

16 hours ago
Responsible-Fee-126 OP

Nice, got me!

13 hours ago
BeachBabe1978

Is this for the cuck forums?

16 hours ago
Brilliant-Oven-3020

My girlfriends boyfriend isn't me

15 hours ago
ismokeshitweed

Just let him use your car

12 hours ago
frigintrees

Why are you fixing another mans car for him? AND hes dating your wife???? My brother in Christ what are you doing?

16 hours ago
Catch_Em_Cards

It’s a joke!!!

13 hours ago
THCv3

Just take it to a man to look at

14 hours ago
Responsible-Fee-126 OP

Dang dude nice, got me

13 hours ago
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17 hours ago
Traditional_Hornet91

My guess is a joint or bushing. My wife's car makes that noise and it's her control arm bushings. Since it's happening on a bump, I'd start with anything that has up and down movement. That would direct me to ball joint, control arms, sway bar and links. From there I'd see if any have excessive play. I'd put a jack underneath the rotor or ball joint to lift it so that I could relieve the pressure from the strut, then see if any thing feels excessively loose. The jack will also help you see what bushings seem worn or detached. Sometimes it's easier to diagnose when you detach components so that you can move them around without the resistance of the car.

16 hours ago
bkwall2000

People from wallstreetbets have cars too, but they usually belong to their wife bf

16 hours ago
That_Aside3107

Wait what ???

16 hours ago
Irishwilly77

16 hours ago
harman_kalsi

whose car?

16 hours ago
figgy_puddin

Somebody’s circlejerk subreddit is leaking.

16 hours ago
Hinloopen

Maybe cut the brake lines.

16 hours ago
Fisherfolk100

Them two been hammering the suspension and each other. The boyfriend should pay for the repair🤨

15 hours ago
Expensive-Work7716

Let it be

15 hours ago
Ok-Island-3294

14 hours ago
Agreeable_Radio_1251

Sounds like a bad strut top mount

14 hours ago
satans_little_axeman

The scissor jack is not for this kind of use. It's also not going to be useful in diagnosing a swaybar end link, because you're keeping them loaded up.

You need a floor jack, both for safety and practicality. Unload the entire front end of the car by lifting it from the front central jack point. Install jack stands on the sides.

The problem will likely be much easier to diagnose then.

13 hours ago
steveseviltwin

It’s more than likely end links.

You’re not going to find the problem diagnosing it that way.

Suspension is at full droop tightening anything that is worn out. Diagnosis should be done at ride height.

you’re going to need a large pry bar to really move the suspension.

If you still can’t find it, start with the easy stuff first. Remove one end link and go for a drive. If it’s still clunking, remove the other one and replace the old one.

This narrows down the sway bar end links. (you should replace them in pairs. )

If the clunking is still there with both end links removed, it’s either strut mounts or lower control arm bushings. Use a pry bar between the frame and control arm to check for movement.

Still no movement? Get your pry bar under the tire and see if it makes noise. It’s the strut mounts.

12 hours ago
m3kw

In that case the shocks would be the first to go

12 hours ago
chris710n

Wife’s boyfriend?

16 hours ago
Similar_Ad2094

Bf = best friend?

16 hours ago
jasonsong86

Wife’s boyfriend?

16 hours ago
ReserveMaleficent583

Yeah please don't ever get under your wife's boyfriend's car like that again. Scissor jacks are for absolute emergency use only. Always have a jack stand.

16 hours ago
Dieppe42

Wife’s Boyfriend? Fuck that guy, cut the brake line.

16 hours ago
jwdjr2004

/r/BicyclingCirclejerk is leaking

16 hours ago
kevdroid7316

You're a good husband.

13 hours ago
T1Earn

i have the same noise with my 2011 mazda 3

16 hours ago
tacobellmysterymeat

It's quite difficult to find failing suspension parts unloaded, by just visual inspection unless the parts are close to catastrophic failure. 

Really, the first thing I would do is put the wheel back on and do the shake test. It gives you the leverage you need to find the bad parts of the suspension. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-oR_5MqvBgE

However I would also check where the struts are mounted. The clunk over bumps makes me think of struts and their bearings.

16 hours ago
SexypigeonEFC

I had a knocking similar to that while going over bumps and turned out to be the shock absorbers.

16 hours ago
bmcle071

I have the same car, my sway bar link went and it sounded like this.

16 hours ago
Judsonian1970

Sounds like the exhaust ....

Also! NEVER get under a car supported by a jack. Get some jackstands! They are cheap and will keep you alive.

16 hours ago
Acceptable-Idea9450

Buick Fast car.....

16 hours ago
awesomeausten1013

I had a similar knocking in a sonata, it was the lower control arm bushing.

16 hours ago
madblunted

Trying to move that stuff under load with your hands won’t show you anything, unless the bushings are severely worn.

16 hours ago
REDTRIANGLEMECHANIC

Put the wheels back on and bounce the front end by pushing down on a fender. Leave the hood open. If you can't see or hear it from above, have someone else bounce the car while you look underneath (carefully, you don't want to get squashed by an overly enthusiastic bounce).

Unless you have some very athletic friends to run alongside whilst you're driving it is very difficult to diagnose "chunks going over bumps"

16 hours ago
Teknicsrx7

On those particular cars, with that type of mileage and sounding like that… the balljoints are very common, you’ll need to replace the whole lower arm to replace the ball joints.

16 hours ago
HawkingzWheelchair

Gotta get his F mobile back on the road ASAP.

16 hours ago
Educational-Back-275

It's the sway bar links even if they look fine and don't have play and don't make noise from jumping on the hood. Should be using a big pry bar to check for play though, if you can feel it with your hand it has to be completely trashed. Try going like 15mph and swinging the wheel left and right it should make noise pretty consistently

It could be strut mounts or something but it's not

15 hours ago
HanCholo206

If the scissor jack is the only thing supporting that car you are a fucking wild man for getting under it.

15 hours ago
letonehh

My Mazda 6 was making the same exact noise…. Replaced sway bar links and the sway bar bushings… noise is gone now!

15 hours ago
29er_eww

You’re gonna need to use alittle more muscle to see if it’s loose lol. And get a real jack and stands, that thing will fall down for no reason

15 hours ago
Ruckiz

Check the rear strut mounts, they’re notorious for falling apart.

Throuples are also notorious for falling apart. Godspeed, my friend.

15 hours ago
LakeMichiganMan

It issue is the brakes. Take a hacksaw and make some cuts on a few lines that go to a couple wheels. This will relieve the pressure, and the noise will stop once the BF gets to the scene of the accident.

14 hours ago
rast124

Sounds to me like the sway bar could be the culprit. What i do to check those is with the car on the ground roc the car from one side to the other. You'll need another person to check if the knock comes from the sway bar. Just stick your hand from underneath (usually from the back of the tire) and place your hand on the sway bar and you should be able to feel the movement. If it does feel on the sway bar it can be the link or the bushing that are worn and need replacement. If you don't feel the movement then it most likely is something else.

14 hours ago
GirchyGirchy

There's a TSB out there for suspension clunks on '14-'15 Mazda3s (02-001/18), depending on year/VIN it's a coil spring protector and/or a bump stop.

I also had to replace the struts & strut mounts (bearings) our ours for a similar clunk years ago.

14 hours ago
_Kouki

Most likely the sway bar link. If the sway bar links are good, i could be something in the strut mount. Shocks and struts are recommended to be replaced every 100k miles.

I know some shops will do inspections. Some free, some $10, some $20. Depends on the shop. If you don't have a way to safely lift the front of the vehicle to do a proper check, see if a local shop will take a look for you. They'd be able to give a proper shakedown, but if none of the suspension parts have ever been replaced, I'd put money on it being the links.

Source: Owned a 2013 Mazda 3 for 8 years, after 150k-ish miles the sway bar links were worn out and were clunking.

14 hours ago
Buttdust93

You need a pry bar and some wheaties for breakfast

12 hours ago
Jaggz691

Is there any wheel shake when moving at higher speeds? Also, obligatory, why does your wife have a boyfriend?

16 hours ago
flotation

I've never seen such a big group of normies on Reddit in my life lol

12 hours ago