NoStupidQuestions

What do some guys hope to achieve by sending unsolicited dick pics?

Maybe it’s just me being confused about how hornybrain works again, but I genuinely don’t understand what people want to achieve in doing this? What do they expect but a block and report?

Edit: Thanks for the concern but I didn’t receive one! I was just morbidly curious.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/1lvy6tq/what_do_some_guys_hope_to_achieve_by_sending/
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Bandro

Having spoken to someon who does this, every once in a while, a woman is pleased and it leads to sex. It's not often, but it's also very little effort every try.

That said, it's just straight up sexual harassment and I'm very much not saying it's okay. That's just the logic behind it. It doesn't work often, but it works often enough that people who don't care about the people it affects find it worth it.

13 hours ago
speaker4the-dead

… just like “the naked man”

11 hours ago
CitizenHuman

Works two out of three times

11 hours ago
quasi-psuedo

But when it works, it works

9 hours ago
SuburbanCumSlut

I can confirm, this does actually work, assuming the person already wanted to sleep with you anyway.

8 hours ago
Bandro

Exactly like that. Except way less effort and risk!

11 hours ago
No_Artichoke7180

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120767/

9 hours ago
sillyaviator

DangerousClick

6 hours ago
DoorHalfwayShut

it's imdb not tinyurl or smth

35 minutes ago
firfetir

I suspect people who are into being shamed also benefit from it. A lot more probably.

10 hours ago
clevererest_username

What's hilarious is this is an effective method to fuck gay guys, at least if you have a nice piece. They rarely get upset with a surprise dick pic.

10 hours ago
Bandro

I mean, makes sense. Only reason I'd be upset at a surprise nude from a woman is that I'm in a committed relationship. Gay dudes are still dudes. (not that all dudes are the same, just, ya know, generalizations)

10 hours ago
PablomentFanquedelic

Only reason I'd be upset at a surprise nude from a woman is that I'm in a committed relationship. Gay dudes are still dudes.

Tangentially reminds me of when, okay my mom and I both copyedit and proofread books for a living, and one we worked on together (The Covenant of Water by Abraham Verghese) opened in colonial India with a twelve-year-old girl about to marry a guy three decades her senior. I was still in boymode at the time, and I made an admittedly dark quip (that I don't endorse on a logical level): "Maybe boys are just different, but if you'd married me off to a grown woman when I was twelve, I would've been over the moon!"

9 hours ago
simplescalar

I don't know why this is an issue. teenage boys are horney.

the problem is not them wanting to fuck anything and as often as possible, its the lack of understanding that odds are its not under their terms and they are being taken advantage of. In our male fantasies, as young overly horney boys. getting some is a dream. in reality it could be come a nightmare.

so I dont think the comment you made is the issue, nor is the fantasy of it. Its our lack of empathy that when it does happen it probably wasnt in the best interest of the boy

6 hours ago
clevererest_username

Gay dudes have the same kind of horny brain as each other, we are visual creatures and dick pics trigger horny brain

10 hours ago
sock_cooker

Nope, send away- get in my inbox and you might get in my outbox

7 hours ago
clevererest_username

This is why straights think it will work because it would work on them

6 hours ago
Kiriyuma7801

It's the modern day 'Boomhauer'

Shoot your shot as quickly and easily as possible as many times as you can and one eventually lands.

8 hours ago
Smitty_1000

It's exhibitionist. More about the act itself than the response.

9 hours ago
MichaelEmouse

Did he give you a % of success rate? Not that I want to try but I'm curious.

You'd think a more careful approach would have a greater success rate but maybe the low effort makes it have a good ROI for some people.

8 hours ago
Bandro

He did not.

8 hours ago
DarknessIsFleeting

Many years ago, before 'dick pick' was a common expression, a friend of mine did this. It was when Tinder was very new. He said for every 50 women: 47 blocked him immediately, 2 responded very negatively and one responded positively.

Edit: syntax

6 hours ago
StrangersWithAndi

I'm going to call shenanigans on this. To be clear I'm not doubting that this is an accurate report of what your friend told you, no shade to you, Bandro. I am saying I think the person who told you this is 100% full of shit. This just doesn't happen. No woman is going to have sex with a random stranger because they showed them their penis out of nowhere. That's never going to be anything other than disgusting or violating. That's no different than saying guys who flash kids on the street do it because some people like it and boom, sex. Or saying guys who grope women on trains do it because some women like it and follow them home. No, they don't. That's not a thing. Not even a rare thing, it just doesn't happen.

Sending sexual photos of your genitals to strangers without consent is assault. The guys who do this only like it because of the reaction they get (any attention is good attention theory) or, if they're really creepy, because they like the non-consent aspect.

10 hours ago
Bandro

I think you're underestimating the possibility of a straight woman enjoying seeing a naked man. I'm not going to argue with you and dig myself into a position where I come off as defending this shit no matter how many disclaimers I add, though. So I'm going to leave it there.

10 hours ago
Azilehteb

I have an acquaintance who’s recently gone through a divorce and she’s… trying a bunch of them out. I do think the right picture would work on her at the moment.

9 hours ago
SnooLentils3008

Says who? Based on what? I completely disagree with your very strong opinion and have had tons of observations and experiences that have shown me that occasionally, some women will be willing to hook up with a random stranger.

It does happen, I even know a woman who cheated on her boyfriend with some guy who randomly sent a dick pic which caused them to break up when he found out. That was already an unhealthy relationship before that, and sometimes someone is just looking for an excuse to do something sexual, including women, they’re human after all.

And for that matter I’ve known women who started to do something like making out with a guy within minutes of meeting him, which led to much more in the same evening, sometimes a woman is looking for something right then and there, or no strings attached as well. I mean I’ve had women interested in doing things very shortly after meeting as well, I was basically a random stranger to them. This is usually at parties, bars, concerts or environments like that, but it is ridiculous to say no woman is ever interested in just sex without any actual deeper interest in the guy. It happens. Less often, and much less overtly that they would seek it out, but 100% it happens regularly. I can think of so many stories of someone I knew meeting a woman at a gas station or even one I remember a friend met a woman outside at a hot dog cart and brought her home. Plenty of situations where women ending up hooking up with someone I knew the same day they met them. It totally does happen from time to time.

Oh and further to that there’s even tons of videos that creeps secretly took where they were on Omegle or some kind of site like that with their dick out and some women would be very into it. I don’t support recording people like that without their knowledge or sending random dick pics. I’m just saying you’re way off on this. I don’t know why you’re speaking so confidently when I have seen so many situations where a woman was enthusiastically into hooking up with a “random stranger”. Outside the bars I once had a random woman just walk up to me and ask if I was spoken for or available (I was spoken for) or another case where I was making out with a woman within minutes of having met her, initiated by her.

Or one where I was waiting for the bus home from work and a concert had just gotten out, some woman was obviously drinking and she was trying to get all over me within moments of approaching me, she was very pretty but I wasn’t going to bring some random drunk woman on the bus home with me so I just slipped away from her when it showed up. I mean I was literally a random stranger to her, and she was hugging and trying to kiss me when she never knew my name or anything about me. So yes I have no doubt it works every so often, even if it is a very gross behaviour to send that to someone who isn’t consenting, absolutely not defending it at all.

I worked at a lot of popular and busy bars and have seen a lot of stuff. If you do the same for a couple of weeks, nothing would surprise you anymore

9 hours ago
Martijngamer
knows 42 things

This just doesn't happen. No woman is going to have sex with a random stranger because they showed them their penis out of nowhere.

The world is so much easier when you just deny things that don't fit your narrative, isn't it? Why bother understanding the nuances of people, why truly understanding different cultures and subcultures, when you can just divide the world in good and evil.

1 hour ago
LadyErinoftheSwamp

I disagree about success rate. The rare woman might be into it. It's grossly inappropriate without permission beforehand, and it is absolutely harassment (I wouldn't call it assault exactly, but we could go back and forth over definitions indefinitely). Still, some women may have a fetish for such interactions.

1 hour ago
DefiantFrankCostanza

Nope it works

7 hours ago
Odd-Perspective-7651

It's like scam callers, they only need 1 out of every 15 for it to work

9 hours ago
Murky-Ad-643

So it’s like cold calls for sex?

8 hours ago
DogsDucks

I’m not sure I believe that it works, I think your friend is trying to justify their harassment by spinning tall tales.

Perhaps if a sex worker has a business-boosting positive reaction, but that would be the best interest of profit.

8 hours ago
EnergyTakerLad

I think on some level its for validation too.

7 hours ago
Killmonger18

60% of the time, it works every time.

7 hours ago
tokulix

I once saw a funny reply to a “How do I get laid” post. A guy said that goes on a dating site, finds 100 girls in the local area and messages all of them with “Hey, wanna fuck?”. Most won’t reply at all, some will block him, but there’s always 2 or 3 who are down to it.

6 hours ago
Sebulba3

It works 50% of the time, all the time 😉

6 hours ago
McBlakey

I am surprised to hear this

I assumed they did it for the shock value

3 hours ago
VirtualMoneyLover

Yeah, but how does the woman know it is the real thing?

2 hours ago
Swimming-Junket-1828

A numbers game

30 minutes ago
Human-Bag-4449

I find that hard to believe. Maybe he's lying to you.

9 hours ago
KronusIV

I believe the mind set is that if you send out 100 pics, and you get 1 half way enthused response back, you win. Make that 500 or 1000, depending on how desperate they are.

12 hours ago
SecondWorld1198 OP

I’d ask how some people think that it’s worth upsetting far more people but I think I know the unfortunate answer to that

12 hours ago
flatstacy

think

That is a huge assumption, the reality is only a tiny percentage of people think before they act

11 hours ago
CommercialSignal7301

My then 14 yo SD’s cousin ( then 19) sent one to her and is now a possible RSO, so be careful.

11 hours ago
DuckofInsanity

How much time do you save, annually, on your unnecessary abbreviations?

4 hours ago
VishieMagic

Lmao, tbh? Idek.. Rt? Nm ig. Tbf imho idrc rn fr lol smh

3 hours ago
hereforthedrama808

What do these acronyms mean?

11 hours ago
CommercialSignal7301

SD- stepdaughter; RSO-registered sex offender

11 hours ago
davidlol78

Theflip does SD and RSO mean man

6 hours ago
itsame3330

I send unsolicited hellos. Apparently, those don't work either.

12 hours ago
Lucky_Goal933

Yeah I didn't appreciate that at all 😂😂😂

12 hours ago
phewho

Me too.

Possibly pivoting to sending dick picks I guess

10 hours ago
jonnyrockets

Try something charming or clever. Or try looking like Brad Pitt and saying nothing

9 hours ago
itsame3330

I didn't know I had the option to look like Brad Pitt.

9 hours ago
jonnyrockets

Just an option.

There aren’t any bad ideas when brainstorming. So they say.

9 hours ago
lovelynutz

Go to r/cospenis save a few of these to send back.

NSFW

12 hours ago
Repeat_Pristine1284

I don’t really like dick pics, but this sub was interesting and worth joining, thanks for mentioning it

9 hours ago
Valuable-Act3905

MY EYES

6 hours ago
satanic_sperm

whwt the jell

8 hours ago
crazy-jay1999

I’ve sent exactly 1 unsolicited dick pic in my life and I got laid that night. Now granted it was to my wife of 17 years but it did work.

10 hours ago
Mundane-Potential-93

legend

7 hours ago
Hererabb

Tbh I think guys like this are similar to those depictions of weirdos in trench coats who flash you on the street. lol.

11 hours ago
SquirrelKing19

Thats what it seems like to me. Just the new version. They're just getting their rocks off by flashing someone.

8 hours ago
Hererabb

Jokes on them I'll take em and post it on 4ch- wait.

7 hours ago
CaptainNessy2

The exact image I had on my head

1 hour ago
NoSoulsINC

“Wow that is so amazing, when can I put it my body?” I believe is the response they are hoping for.

11 hours ago
lithiumcitizen

Whilst clearly more offensive, it probably has better success rates than sending unsolicited music recommendations to friends and loved ones.

12 hours ago
SecondWorld1198 OP

Joke’s on you, me and almost all my friends are neurodivergent and share music at random times

12 hours ago
lithiumcitizen

Ok, well enjoy that.

12 hours ago
SecondWorld1198 OP

I will, and you should enjoy some Judas Priest :)

12 hours ago
lithiumcitizen

Thanks and I’ve heard them when I was young, not my thing at all. Nice cover art though.

12 hours ago
SnooLobsters2901

Hell yeah

11 hours ago
Miserable-Beyond-166

Ohhhhhh but I love sharing music recs

11 hours ago
lithiumcitizen

Oh I’m confident that you do… Do you friends honestly like receiving them?

11 hours ago
Silly-Gooper

i would, but i have no fwiends

11 hours ago
Miserable-Beyond-166

By sharing, I mean receiving. I LOVE when my peopIe send me music links. I might send music 1-2x a year to family. We're a musical bunch, some still in the industry. So far we all seem to enjoy it.

11 hours ago
beamerpook

I asked this question last week, and the common consensus is that,

It's low effort

It's kinda fun in itself

If it gets a positive reaction, however rare it is, it's 👍👍👍

11 hours ago
Alpaca_Investor

They get a thrill from the non-consensual nature of it - the recipient can’t be warned about what the photo is before viewing it, so the recipient is forced to see it, even if the recipient doesn’t want to or feels violated by it.

12 hours ago
Throwaway1996513

I think some of them are just dumb and don’t realize women don’t appreciate that. Because the majority of single guys would appreciate receiving a pic from a woman.

9 hours ago
sgismilts

This is the correct answer.

8 hours ago
The001Keymaster

Read some of those letters people write into penthouse or whatever magazine and that's basically what these guys think is going to happen.

Pro-tip, it's not.

12 hours ago
Wild-Razzmatazz1619

Make me so turned on that I respond I guess

11 hours ago
Wild-Spare4672

The goal is to sexually arouse a woman when she sees your dick pic.

9 hours ago
JustDoIt0990

I'm a 60 year old woman. I've only been sent one dick Pic in my life, and it went from, omg, wtf, I think I'm going to vomit, lmao, this is disgusting, etc... you get the just. I have never in my life seen a dick with hair on the shaft!!!! Shave that shit or something!

8 hours ago
Not-A-Cantalope

Ikr like what are they thinking is going to happen

12 hours ago
deltajvliet

I had to check... Are you sure you're not a cantaloupe? You didn't even spell your not-self correctly.

12 hours ago
Not-A-Cantalope

That was auto-generated from Reddit

11 hours ago
BetterAfter2

May have meant “cant-elope”. They have nothing against eloping.

11 hours ago
The-Wiggely-one

The problem with men is, that we are blessed with both a brain and a penis, just not with enough blood to make them both work at the same time.

edit: I have a hypothesis that men with bigger dicks get dummer.

6 hours ago
CatsWillRuleHumanity

Because they would love it if a woman randomly sent them their tits or something, so they imagine it works both ways, cmon people it's not them getting off on harassment lol

5 hours ago
M1CHES

The real explanation is that those men would love it if they received a random boob pic so they think it works the other way around as well. Any other explanation you try to come up with it just overcomplicated.

1 hour ago
elispotato

Bobs and Vagene

12 hours ago
BussyIsQuiteEdible

a reaction

12 hours ago
Bottledbutthole

What I don’t get is literally what stopping you from now posting it to the rest of the Internet yourself to be mocked or even to his family and friends if you can find his other socials?

11 hours ago
SecondWorld1198 OP

I didn’t receive one, I was genuinely just curious about this

11 hours ago
GlassCannon81

Literally nothing, and doing so would be the appropriate response, except that women legitimately have to fear violence from men, and a dude who sends an unsolicited dick pic is exactly the type to fear.

9 hours ago
SeedsOfEssence

I think they want validation, or they think women think the same as men. I've never sent one. I'm happy with my choice.

10 hours ago
Suitable-Hornet2797

Hail Mary.

10 hours ago
Human-Bag-4449

I find it hard to believe any guys do that except total creeps. I'm not a prude and I'm definitely not ashamed of being nude or being seen but I would never send a dick pic unless it was my significant other and she asked me for one. I've been to nude beaches and nudist resorts but I would never share a dick pic especially with somebody who I'm not in a relationship with

9 hours ago
Desperate-Funny1676

I think it’s cause if a women where to send an unsolicited nude, they would immediately fold.

5 hours ago
fruitsteak_mother

had a conversation with two girls at a party about this topic recently, they were all like ‚yeah it’s so stupid and so gross, i mean look at this one or this one…“ showing one after another of those pics they got saved on their phones like a collection of butterflies.
I wondered why the hell they keep them anyway? They turned silent and blushed all of a sudden „because….its so stupid, you know?“

3 hours ago
ZaneWasTakenWasTaken

wow, I think those mfs know that some girls save it lmao

2 hours ago
Practical_Move_9631

Sex

11 hours ago
cantseemeimblackice

Thank you. It needs no further analysis or explanation.

8 hours ago
shaftalope

Glory. The sheer magnificent glowing wonderment that is me. It is like when someone has a fart-cannon exhaust on a Honda and I hear it and I think WOW that is soooooooo cool! You should see the dic pic and squeal with excitement and call your friends and say 'DID YOU SEE IT??? ' We assume that you spend the next several days showing it off and secretly stealing glances at it when you are in a meeting or a family funeral, that you wake up in the night in a sweat and check to make sure it is still in your photo app even though you have a copy in a separate secret hidden file on your PC and another copy on a thumb drive that is locked in a safety deposit box at a local bank. It is so valuable that Danny Ocean comes out of retirement and gets the crew together to heist the thumdrive with the dic pic and upload it to the Interpol website for the good of all mankind but then Jason Bourne intercepts it and then promptly forgets he has it for like 3 years until he is in a car accident where he gets hit on the head and remembers he has it but when he opens the file there is just a dic pic with no explanation and he is like 'nice dick' but then he thinks 'who's dick is that?' But it is too late because he accidentally attaches the pic to the NOC list and now Ethan Hunt and his team are after it because this message will self destruct in 30 seconds and they all decide to take dic pics and send them to all the girls and the girls are so exited that a wave of love and peace and unity reads across the globe as the beauty and wonder transforms humanity.

That's why.

10 hours ago
Majestic_Warthog_420

awesome that

20 minutes ago
Ranchette_Geezer

It's a form of sexual assault, and some guys get off by doing it.

I've read of two different strategies for it.

1) Tell the guy he can be arrested for send child porn, and that sending a picture of a 12-year old penis is child porn;

2) Google images for "Giant penis" (You would be amazed), cut and paste, send it back saying "Yes?"

12 hours ago
maroongrad

I sent back very graphic, gorey penile-surgery pictures and penile-injury/trauma ones. Worked for me.

11 hours ago
AcidShotEyes

Look up pictures of degloved penises. You're welcome.

2 hours ago
Kat-Sith

I used to have a gif of a woman seductively kissing and tonguing a banana before abruptly turning it sideways and viscously biting it on half.

I can't find it now, but it got the message across most of the time.

11 hours ago
qwertyuduyu321

What do some guys hope to achieve by sending unsolicited dick pics?

I don't believe there's any logical reason for this behavior.

I assume most of the men who do this are simply struggling with mental health issues.

11 hours ago
Outrageous_chaos_420

It takes no effort to DM somebody—it’s just an invite. It only means something if you entertain and engage, which requires a reply.

The moment someone bites, that’s when they’re actually putting in real time.

12 hours ago
deltajvliet

Shittier, tackier, awfuler version of catcalling? "Why do guys catcall" already exists on the Internet. Extrapolate.

12 hours ago
MamaBearCuddles

Same reasons men cat call women.

First, every once in a while, it actually works.

Second, it’s feeling the power of shocking a woman.

11 hours ago
BestCoastWaveTrain

They just need that one person to show a little interest to feel validated in their behavior. They don’t even need it to happen to them, they just need to hear it worked for someone, somewhere, and suddenly it becomes the problem of any woman they have the ability to contact.

11 hours ago
Traditional_Wolf_249

When I do it when I was younger, I dunno it was wrong lol (I was 13) that time

11 hours ago
Character_Ad2123

I’m no expert but it has to be for either a reaction or attention. In my opinion, they fall into the same category as the women on instagram who are always posting naked and half naked pictures. So cringy.

11 hours ago
AbjectLime7755

Girl I was FWB with for a bit used to keep all the UDP she received.. her view was if you are going to do it put some effort in, not sitting on toilet, no skiddy underwear in the back ground, no unkept mass of pubes.. lighting and asthetics were important. She also kept pics of busted old vag pics to send back if she got a bad one or they were being rude.

11 hours ago
OriginalMandem

I still don't get when this actually started... I blame cameras on phones because even when people had standalone digital cameras I don't think... 🤔

11 hours ago
Gods0fsand

I've never sent any unsolicited dick picks. I've had a few women ask me for picks, and even then, it's a bit awkward for me to send them, lol. Honestly, it's just gross behavior by desperate men. It's just them carpet bombing their penises to a bunch of women, hoping a few hoes will jump on them.

11 hours ago
NoConsequence589

I’d say quite a few of them do it purposefully to make women uncomfortable. Not all of them, but some.

11 hours ago
buzz8588

Look up the Seinfeld episode the naked man. It’s a numbers game

11 hours ago
ElahaSanctaSedes777

“You know what I’m gonna fuck this guy now”

Lmaooooooooo guys can be so dumb that I truly don’t get it and I don’t do that

10 hours ago
SexyToxinn

As a guy who created a fake girl account on Reddit. I was surprised by the fact how common it is, what I did in return to these images was I just gave them massive insecurity, I replied it’s ugly, utter garbage piece of shit, I’d rather use an H.I.V infected dildo than this 😭 and what I got in response was these bums got offended to death.

10 hours ago
Icy_Inspection_4799

I just assume it’s advertisement for whenever you get horny and is looking for accessible dick. It’s like a YouTube ad. You could either watch it and eventually use the product, Skip it all together, or say you’re not interested.

10 hours ago
twistedbrewmejunk

I always assumed it's like when male turtles do jazz hands... If they keep doing it eventually they'll find a mate that is like hell yeah..

10 hours ago
MeeloP

Idk but, “When in doubt, dick pic it out.”. 🤷‍♂️

10 hours ago
robbob19

Never done it, but I understand it is using a shot gun approach to find a partner who is similarly nasty. The good news is you only have to block them once, or share the photo with your friends, preferably with some photo shopping to make them even more of a laughing stock.

10 hours ago
SenorDavidov

So to pre-text, I am in no way justifying these actions, at the very best they're a fools hope, and at the worst, straight up sexual assault, but to apply some form of logic to this -

  1. As others have already pointed out, spray and pray tactic, send a 100 dick pics, blind hope that one will respond positively.

  2. Sexual thrill, it can be fun to be naughty and have a good time, sadly a lot of people don't think about other's feelings, particularly when they're horned up (yes people, not men. I've had more than enough lesbian friends tell me about women sending unsolicited tit pics over the years, albeit it a much smaller percentage when compared with men sending dick pics).

  3. Domination. Someone else pointed out that it's a power play kinda thing, if the person doesn't know they're opening a dick pic, some people get off on that.

  4. Men on average are much more visual creatures. Situation dependant of course, a man is much more likely to be seduced and further engage from receiving a random nude from a woman they're into (sometimes not into if they're horny/desperate enough). Some guys can't break that programming and (going hand in hand with my 2nd point) never get the realisation that women (on average anyway) don't mentally work the same. In their minds, send dick pic = engagement, because that is more than likely what would work on them.

Again, not condoning any of this shitty behaviour, just adding logic to it.

9 hours ago
liquidelectricity

Sex

9 hours ago
Axg165531

Ummm what do you woman get from sending unsolicited cheek pics ? My girlfriend is always sending me cheek pics im thinking of blocking her 

9 hours ago
Kenzore1212

Probably like ‘oh my, can I see that up close?’

9 hours ago
prettygirlmae

i’m convinced it’s from a humiliation or degradation fetish or something!

9 hours ago
jimb21

Acceptance of our body image

9 hours ago
MayAuch

I think it is a somewhat sexist act that increases his ego.. For most women, seeing those types of photos does nothing for us.

9 hours ago
KeyDistribution738

What I’ve had to learn growing up is that people will do the most random stuff for a reason or no reason at all.

You just gotta accept that some men might do it for:

  • Sexual gratification.
  • Humiliation fetish. 
  • Narcissistic reassurance.
  • They believe it works.
  • Influenced by other guys who send nudes.
  • They’re being forced into sending them because of black mail.
  • Etc.

There is no singular answer to why anyone does anything in life until they explain it. Even then - it doesn’t guarantee that EVERY man sends nudes for the same reasoning. 

8 hours ago
MayAuch

Approval ego boost

8 hours ago
Always-a-Tingle07

Okay, can we all agree that the penis is the ugliest thing ever!? Like I know I’m supposed to be attracted to it or whatever but like…it’s ugly. I’ve never seen one and thought “yesssss! That!” For me, and maybe I’m crazy, it’s wayyyy more about my attraction to who it belongs to more than the thing itself…

8 hours ago
Legitimate-Log-6542

The problem lies in the possibility that 60% of the time it works every time

8 hours ago
H13R0G1YPH

Where the hell you get that statistic

8 hours ago
Legitimate-Log-6542

Anchorman

7 hours ago
H13R0G1YPH

Oh you right

7 hours ago
yax51

Validation

8 hours ago
Altruistic-Strike150

They hope to gain FWB or possibly just a quickie

8 hours ago
sgismilts

While there are some men who get off on the ‘power’ etc, the real reason is likely simpler— it’s men who don’t understand that female arousal works different to men’s. They think because THEY would like to see a picture of a random woman’s genitalia, the woman would like it too. It’s mostly an education issue around sex differences between men and women.

8 hours ago
Affectionate-Hat-917

Hopefully to find that reddit women that's fucks reddit or's and post all about it

8 hours ago
Thnxredball

Probably in hopes of getting a pic back

8 hours ago
cherry-girlxxx

Because they're full of themselves.

If my boyfriend had sent me a dick pic first I wouldn't have slept with him. It screams "I'm really immature and egotistical" super loud.

8 hours ago
MOBYWV

The goal is for the girl to be impressed by your size, since many girls seem to care about that sort of thing.

7 hours ago
badbadLeroy_Brown

You ever get those flyers in the mail for roofing work or some other shit? Eventually someone says “sure I can use that.” Or at least I’m guessing that is the theory behind the deployment of unsolicited penis portraits. Send a mass flyer aka Johnson jpeg out and someone will bite.

7 hours ago
Mineturtle1738

Never sent one and never will but my theory is that some guys think girls think like guys.

Like if a girl sends you a picture of her tits many(but not all) guys get turned on.

So these guys think if a guy sends a picture of his dick the women would get turned on.

That’s my guess anyways.

7 hours ago
MOTHRA_MAMA

I imagine that some are hoping to interest the recipient in a potential booty call. But also...

A dude who sends unsolicited dick pics is the same species of pervert as those dudes that wave their dicks around or masturbate on crowded subway cars; they get off on the idea that they made you look whether you wanted to or not.

In conclusion, they're hoping to achieve some kind of sexual gratification- regardless of how/why they did.

7 hours ago
BamBam-BamBam

Just one positive response.

7 hours ago
GroundbreakingBag580

A worthy opponent in a sword duel.

7 hours ago
_00_00_00_00

The psychology behind it goes same with Duck selfie pics as well. No reason. It's just firing their inner satisfaction.

7 hours ago
richardblack3

I'm guessing it turns them on? Like dudes with trench coats exposing themselves. Like "haha you saw my hog. Now I'm gonna jack it?"

7 hours ago
Staceytom88

"Hog" has me howling 🤣

5 hours ago
richardblack3

Oinking all the way to the bank

5 hours ago
Staceytom88

Which bank we talking about here?! 😅

5 hours ago
richardblack3

The one where one slimes cum in ... Spirit bank? Forget the name

4 hours ago
Staceytom88

Haha that's the one I was thinking 😅🤣

4 hours ago
PersianDelinquent06

It doesn't affect me but I think it's just very low IQ to do that as a pick up technique.

7 hours ago
knottyErin262

They're hoping the girl will see and say, "my god those balls are as smooth as eggs!"

7 hours ago
Greensnype

It's the digital version of Flashing. They get sexual gratification by forcing their sexuality on anyone else.

6 hours ago
lezvj

I believe they want reassurance to make them more confident

6 hours ago
Royal-Elven-Guard

It’s like how I saw a British comedian explain it when saying a dick pic is like putting your dick through someone’s letter box and knocking on the door. “How will I know if they’ll suck it if I don’t give them the option to suck it”

6 hours ago
PristinePrincess12

Daniel Sloss. He's Scottish.

5 hours ago
Royal-Elven-Guard

I’m terrible with regional accents sometimes, sorry….

5 hours ago
No_Welder_7946

Glory for the empire or something. It's never been on my mind to send a dick pick. But guess we are just monkeys using tools that the brain hasn't caught up on

6 hours ago
rickandmortyfan2025

I forgot the person who made the quote but "god made men have a sick and a brain but not enough blood to use both" or something along the lines of that

5 hours ago
YeezyMyHero00

PC, Xbox Series

4 hours ago
MrEury

I can only say why I did it when I was in my late teens, I dont know why all the rest do it, in my late teens, due to hormones and facing sexual struggle the first time, I sometimes sent unsolicited dick pics in hope that a woman were to like what she saw, to be accepted and loved the way I am, as I faced problems at that time with women mocking, rejecting and humiliating me based on my dick size, despite the fact I'm completely normal, but it got heavily in my head in that period (sad to say its still affecting me to this day) but yeah I was hoping to just be accepted and loved the way I was and in a horny mood that resulted in me sending a dick pic, not something I do on this day, at least never unsolicited, though I cant state it is asked for much, sometimes I gf asked something like it, though not sure if it was by her wanting it or some sort of sympathy for my troubles with it

4 hours ago
Wild_Area_8662

I send them out in the hope that one day, I'll have sent it to a talent scout who's been waiting for a suitably small and ugly winky to cast in their latest feature film or sign to their peepee fashion agency. No luck so far, but I'm amassing quite a substantial collection of restraining orders.

4 hours ago
RephofSky

Then the crazy thing is some of us (who don't take those kinda pics) might come across girls who WANT to see such private pics.

3 hours ago
pemboo

Same reason spam and scam callers do their thing 

3 hours ago
Ill-Independence-786

Lmfao. My extremly gorgeous and sexy redheaded friend female. Everytime she spends the night when we are hanging the next morning about 80% of the time some random dude will send her a fat close up of his genitalia. I always know when one pops up as she checks messages because she will let out a big groan like she's about to get sick and say: fuck that's just what I want. To be eating breakfast and see this guy's dong. Pathetic .. men are pathetic! Haha it's sad

3 hours ago
JDude13

It’s more malicious than “eh, it’s easy and it miiiiight work”

They get off on the thought of a woman being forced to look at them

3 hours ago
ragingbohneur

Because it worked for them once, they think it'll work again

3 hours ago
Goblin-o-firebals

Its either a statistics game or they watched to much porn and think that if people see dick they will become unable to resist.

2 hours ago
Ganuan

Here's an article about it

2 hours ago
Awkward_Employ2731

Ranking

2 hours ago
MPRF12345

I guess they think that women work the same way men do. I mean, most men would love to get an unsolicited boob/vagina pic. So maybe they're trying to achieve the same thing. Idk, I'm a guy, but I never understood it either. You'd have to be super dumb to send one 

2 hours ago
histoRy1337

They expect pussy pic back

1 hour ago
Massive-Point2541

I could never do this I have a tiny penis, and I don’t know if anyone would want to see it anyways

1 hour ago
Present_Passenger471

The same thing that anyone who posts this question for the 100th time this month without using Search:

Attention.

1 hour ago
questionguyhere

A lot of women seem to be traumatized by stuff like this and have all these reasons why a guy would do this and he must be a super creep. But the simple and real answer is the guy was horny and probably isn't thinking of the consequences. Just horny and probably proud of the picture they just took and wants whoever he's sending it to to compliment it. I've been sent a lot of unsolicited pictures from women from younger days till now and guess what.. they want you to compliment them lol. Say anything else and they think you didn't like it or aren't interested. I think most men are just horny, bored and want some type of validation in a vulnerable moment. And then some are creeps but I don't think most who send pictures are. Just like women. But I don't send those types of pictures so I'm not sure what a really negative response might look like from someone who really didn't want it.

56 minutes ago
AccomplishedChef4963

Honestly haven’t been that guy. I have asked if they wanted one and sent if they did. It is nice when you get a compliment but for me it was about wanting to know if they want to see.

53 minutes ago
MrPhlacid

Shock and awe at how impressive this pole is😭

53 minutes ago
Unstable_Unicorn_444

“Even a blind squirrel gets a nut everyone once and a while”

5 minutes ago
SnooLobsters2901

Idk how controversial this is but I think we make too big a deal out of certain parts of the body. What counts as “gross” if someone has gangrene? It’s his or her body. Even for genitals or other body parts they’re there it’s just ppl have clothes on. Idk I think in the scheme of things there’s worse things to be offended by like people going without food. I get that it’s about courtesy and civility too but yeah idk. To be clear though unwanted dik pik bad

11 hours ago
bored_milleniall

Yo digo que son hombres tan feos, enfermos y frustrados que solo con saber que alguien aparte de sus papás les han visto el bulto pueden llegar a sentir excitación

9 hours ago
Tasty-Willingness839

I dunno but I like dick pics 😂. Not from randoms but I love de cock 😂😂

I said not from randoms.

6 hours ago