PeterExplainsTheJoke
Is there a joke here or I'm just stupid?
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I'm probably wrong about this but it just looks like he cheated on her with a man and is making up dumb excuses as to why it wasn't his fault.
Or pretending to on a fake video for laughs at least
"I have no idea why I keep finding these gay men sucking my dick."
How is it gay if I was pretending you were a woman?
My trans friends tell me that way of thinking is how they get so many dates from sexually repressed religious republicans and why Grinder always crashes when a right wing rally is held.
Know thyself jaegz69, they say it's one of the hardest things a person can do, best of luck.
I've met some different people in my journeys here and while I'm not sure id actually go through with it, when you get attention you have to consider if you would...
Its only bad if you lie to yourself. If you are a dude fucking someone that YOU consider a dude, regardless of how they consider themselves you might be gayer than you think
At 63 I'm confident in my sexuality, maybe thought about that in the 70's, years ago but I don't remember.
I find it all easier to understand when I think of someone's sex of being male or female as part of basic biology and gender to be on a sliding scale, a part of psychology and having nothing to do with biology.
It makes it easier for me to see peoples sexual motivations even if I don't truly understand them. Some guys like to suck dicks, some people think magic and the supernatural are real without there being any evidence, some people think Two Girls and One Cup is art.
I just know myself and don't think it's possible to truly understand other peoples motivations unless you are that person.
I'm a good bit younger just having turned 40 and it's such a strange position to be in having grown up being taught two kinds of people, two kinds of sexuality but still trying to be open minded, and feeling what you want to feel even if it has another meaning.
It feels like there are two camps. There are people that grew up with the beliefs weve had (and ignoring the parts of history where it was different) and refuse to see otherwise
And the crowd like here on Reddit that's just a new form of conservative and they don't even realize it. If you aren't down with everything and you don't not only accept and embrace every bit of it , we will destroy you. Having new and current beliefs doesn't make you not conservative, it just makes you a new kind afraid of new change because you've built yourself around what's current. Think of people 20 years ago and back. Gayness is mental illness. Then 10 years ago gay is ok but all these people thinking they are someone else need help. Its great that we have accepted more and more, but it's usually the new young people that accept the new things, then harden into unchanging ideas, meaning they atrophy as a mind and a person. Its a real thing to think we might have to wonder if machines are people. To say that now sounds like I'm just making shit up because they are machines but that day might be coming. More than likely it will be something new that we can't possibly see coming in 20 years and everyone here will say I'm ok with everything in 2025 but that was it! They think they live in the future but they in the embarrassing past of a future that has happened yet.
For instance I feel that the way you feel about a person's identity and the way they feel about themselves is EQUALLY important. But that pisses off both the old and the young people. So it's such a wild age group to be in halfway through with life
That somewhat falls apart for people like me... I'm intersex and sex is kinda sliding scale too...
Yea that's fair
SOOOOOO MANY RELIGIOUS CONSERVATIVE DUDES ITS INSANE I GET LIKE 50+ A WEEK. Its fucking nuts, personally I dont partake in that though I dont want to end up shame murdered.
just like that quiversful cult episode of SVU
Yea it's sad
Not that I did it
Whew I knew it was funny to say what I did but it's like 20 years old and back when no one had HBO. I just watched them like maybe 5 years ago jus having known some of the songs before
those nice first world problems to have 😔
“It’s an investment opportunity for hustlers!
You suck my penis and see a 107.3% return on my cum that you can then sell to the sperm bank for £7.99
That buys two booster packs of magic the gathering!”
Or both
Its literally a skit, people think everything on the internet is real.
I actually follow them, some are funny
The joke is also he though “grinder” was for people who work hard. Like on a grind. But it’s actually a gay dating app
I know, it just looked like that was an excuse he made up to justify what he did.
But I might be looking too deep into it
Grindr. Like to grind is to hustle. It’s a dating app.
The joke is he thought Grindr was an app for those “grinding” to make money but found out it was an app for Gay dating. Instead of doing the predictable thing and deleting the app when in error, the joke misdirects to the premise/punchline to finding out he is gay.
There's another layer to it. The music and editing style is typically used for inspirational hustler videos on Instagram so this is mocking that too.
Nah this BGM doesn't always uses it for the motivations
The joke is that the guy was in one the grind. Yk, trying do make money. But he misstook Grindr for a something like LinkedIn, because he only looked at the apps name. It's classic absurdity since he did realised what Grindr really is, until He had Sex with another man.
He was networking
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grindr mindset
It's from a YouTube channel called Entrapure. They make fun of the hustler/crypto bro image. In it one of their frequent jokes are gay references. So why wouldn't you want to grind and network with several other hot guys out there.
One of my favorits of his is when the main guy explains that he only hires bi guys for his business cause everyone else are losers. After all, who would just give up on half of the dating pool?
Grinder is a gay dating app
I know
Grind is also about grinding, like money making.
Grind is also a difficult trick in Tony Hawks Pro Skater 1
A grinder is also a delicious Italian sandwiches loaded with meats and cheeses.
I am a bit puzzled myself. Ig the guy is closeted and tries to convince the so that he though that grinder was some sort of app for people who are looking for jobs in the stone polishing industry...?
Then he said he got fucked... so not sure...maybe he though that no idea. really.
"Grinding" is a term for men who are "on the grind" for money. It's a men's motivational self-help thing, not referencing "stone-polishing" lol. Like, what?
It's actually kind of funny because a grinder is someone who works hard to earn money. Grindr is an app where gay dudes arrange to hook up... The joke being that she found the app Grindr on his phone and he's claiming he thought it was an app for grinders...
I think for this particular channel it goes a step further and offers a humorous commentary on the latent closeted homosexual energy within the members crypto bro/hustle community.
Unrelated, but does anyone know what the song is called?
dramamine by flawed mangoes
Thanks
There was a post somewhere about 8 or 9 years ago about something like this. From what i remember said they put “tried of benign on the bottom ready to be on top” or something
Grinding is slang for working hard or hustling. Grinder is a gay dating app. When his girlfriend confronts him for having gronde. His excuse is he thought grinder was an app for "hustlers" to get together and network.
Grindr is a gay dating app but being "on that grind" is a common phrase hustlers/entrepreneurs/broke people say when they're working to making money.
The video is obviously fake and a joke. The guy is saying he downloaded it because he's a hustler and thought it was used to network with other hustlers and then ended up getting "tricked" into sex. It's up to your interpretation if he's lying or if he genuinely fell into a trap because he's dumb (which a lot of self proclaimed "hustlers" are)
Brian here,
Yes, Grindr is a dating/hookup app. This video though is a parody of midwest emo song intros, and that is why it's funny. See, classic example: https://youtube.com/shorts/SAQxwkLl8Fw?si=BWnsxW29mxgllsJR
Hey Brian, thanks for introducing me to the genre... would you happen to also know the track that's used in the tiktok?
There's one thing downloading an app thinking it's something else but then why keep it?
Accidents happen
Got it
The question is, which trap did he fall for?
This was executed brilliantly. From the angle of her receding while the phone is on her lap, to the enthusiasm in his voice, to the editing with the background music. The sum is so much more than its parts.
Yes and yes.
The joke is "I didn't know I was gunna get fucked..." "Wait, WHAT?"
Yeah, stupid
Both
It's all about The Grind 💪
grindr is a dating app mostly used by gay people.
he says he thought it was for hustlers (in this case probably meaning people that work a lot, aka grinding aka hustling)
Someone have a link to the milk lady crash out set to this?
You know what to do cowboy
It's hard being a hustler man
He wanted to chase the bag not the faaa- falafel, yeah totally falafel.
Assuming the video is true and not just a skit. Grindr is like Tinder but for gay people. Also grinding/hustling is also a word use for working hard. And so he may think that grindr is for the person that work hard so he try and connect with more people. Getting the bag also mean making money.
From chasing the bag to chasing the sack.
If I was in her shoes, I would prefer if he really did cheat on me with another guy, than to learn my boyfriend was a "hustler".
Then why did he not delete the app?
There are 2.
- The guy thought Grindr (Tinder for gays) was for hustlers, as in aggressive go getters, about the grind to make money and shit.
- The guy got fucked in the ass. as in a "I get you may be confused, but why didn't you stop when you realised?" kind of joke.
Edit: there may be a 3rd one, he didn't deleted it so he enjoyed it?
Grindr is basically tinder for gay people. Bro was caught with grindr installed and is making excuses like him thinking it was to help him with the "grindset" kind of thing.
Just like the Chinese food in Tijuana tiktok video: https://www.tiktok.com/@kennalovescisco/video/7286260954634161454?lang=en
He’s gay. The joke is he’s gay.
Maybe or maybe not. depends on if he is attracted to women. bisexual men do exist.
Yeah that’s pretty gay. But that’s not the point. The JOKE is that he is gay. Not that it’s funny.
No, we can't know if he is gay until he says if he is attracted to women or not. There are men who are attracted to men who are not gay. They can be bisexual.
Right over your head. This is all a joke.
Stewie here. Yeeeep, he’s gay. Well, more on the DL which, for you uncultured swine, stands for Down Low
"Chase the bag" thats not what grindr is for. Thats some small time thinking, grindr is for real hustlers they chasing the sack.
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